We come to realise that our past behaviour which is rooted and buried in our sub-conscious still rule controlling our lives today

1: We come to realise that our past behaviour which is rooted and buried in our sub-conscious still rule controlling our lives today, This has made us powerless to create our own authentic truth and introduce true recovery into our lives.

2: We start the process of learning the ten stages by awakening a new understanding of ten-stage recovery program. This leads to the persistence awakening of our hidden child within. We come to believe that the child within, at our core, is more powerful than the past history that has been imposed upon us.

3: We finally start to understand our recovery journey and make a strong decision to align with our child within, despite the pressures and distortions from others to submit to crazy distortions of family, society, and the historical voices that we still carry within ourselves.

4: We journey within ourselves to our child re-opening the truth of our past history, the good, the bad, the understood and the misunderstood.

5: We come to a renewed understanding of ourselves without our childhood historic fears 


6: We begin to live in a new reality becoming entirely ready to grieve our ancient past history with our fellows.

7: We Identify, Aligning the new reality of our present life with our child within preceding with the deep and transforming work of grieving the pain and suffering of our newly identified past our losses both physical and emotional.

8: We study the ten stages and understand the deep dissociations of our escapist ways, copping strategies that we have hurt and are at present hurting ourselves with. We become willing to straighten out our past and present with our current new knowledge of ourselves and the ten stages. Our emotions start to reappear appearing fearlessly out of the mists of our clearing mind.

9: Starting to realise and reconstruct our adult life using our newly found knowledge of meditation, loving-kindness and Kindfulness to recognise and change our inappropriate dissociating behaviours, which have constantly kept us from our own personal freedom, truth and health.

10: We recognise that our behaviour has been deeply learned and sublimated within our childhood unconscious and this will keep bubbling to surface inappropriately. So we continue to monitor our attitudes, behaviours, and when we recognise a triggered response we promptly admit it to another member, trace its traumatic origin, and take actions to try to not repeat it, without beating ourselves up with shame and guilt for past behaviours.

11: Seeking constantly seeking, weeding out through self-reflection our dissociations and redundant strategies. We seek an ever-deepening connection to our perfect child within, we desire only to be guided to our intuitive voice, to recognise it and act on it.

12: Having awakened to our perfect healthy child within, we dedicate our lives to its full manifestation and to nurturing the healing paths of others